How to be friendly stranger
Tony E Dillon Hansen
Reflection based upon Matthew 9:35-10:8, Romans 5:1-8, Psalm 100
Opening Prayer
As many of you know, I enjoy gardening. I have turned our side yard into a place hugs you with a warm welcome. My garden is a place where I can be peaceful and be with nature in all of God’s wonder. It is a place where conversations can happen (necessary or fun), a place where spirits rise and laughter meets cheers.
To work in the garden helps to center me as well. Yes there is plenty of opportunities for weeding as well as pulling volunteer trees. So if you feel anxious and need something to do, I am sure I can help you find something.
What does gardens have to do with today’s lesson from Matthew?
In order to raise spirits and laughter, one must first be hospitable. One must first be willing to welcome. One must first be willing to share space and time.
“The harvest is plentiful but the laborers are few.” Thus, to do ministry, to do church, we are summoned by Jesus to go and proclaim good news and here is the procedure you should follow.
Take only yourself, your wits, your love , your peace and bring that to welcoming homes. If someone does not welcome you, shake off the dust and move on.
What we preach in Jesus’s name is controversial and will be greeted with “mixed emotions” as some would say. What about love, faith in God, and peace are controversial though?
Some don’t want to believe in the power of love and peace.
Yet when we go from place to place, task to task, garden to garden or house to house, God goes before us, and if you let your faith guide you, you will be as Paul writes “justified by faith.” Through our faith, no matter what comes before us or what suffering we may face, God will be with us.
That isn’t to say we should be silent when injustice, or have experience of inhospitable people - unwelcoming folks. We know that we come with grace, peace, and love through our faith, and therefore, we offer only those gifts and nothing more - and we take nothing from people that isn’t offered freely.
Through our steadfast devotion to love, grace, peace and faith, we will be the example, we will be the welcome heart, we will be that smile and welcome to someone who needs it, who desperately yearns for it - (especially that one on the corner with a sign asking for help and your blessing.)
That starts with “welcome”!
For when we welcome, the conversation can begin. When we welcome, the learning begins. When we welcome, peace between people has a chance to take root, - and God’s garden expands and flourishes.
When we are the one that decides to listen instead of blabbing some rhetoric we heard on the media, when we are willing to hear what others say, then we can grow and learn about how God shines in the other people.
That, Beloved, is love at work. That is how we mold swords into plowshares. That is how we put away the guns and offer a hand instead.
It is simple, but it is not easy. For we as people react to people and people can be not so nice as we would like.
Yet, the challenge here isn’t to meet hate with more hate or violence, but to meet with grace and peace. To dust off the remnants of tired misfortunes and grievances and then move on - because creation moves on in the same way, whether God agrees with our attitudes or not.
God offers the blessing and love and gives a path forward - not backwards. God wants us to be the example of the welcome and the love that God wants in the world.
If enough of us do this, many of our world’s problems are resolved. Much of what bothers our own selves is put to rest. When you trust in your faith in the one who comes before us, then you too can experience that peace and love of God in your own hearts. When you do, you can’t help but to extend that welcome and love to others and what a thing to share - love, grace, peace and faith.
There, Beloved, is a happy place and a garden that needs only your presence and welcome. There is all that you ever need.
That Beloved is…
Thanks Be to God.