What would you do
Tony E Hansen
Sermon based upon Luke 15: 1-32, Psalm 32
Opening prayer
This weekend's lesson in Luke offers us the familiar parable of the father with two sons. Of the sons, there is one who is diligent in efforts and one who squanders. There is the parent who makes decisions about his children.
There are plenty of interpretations that discuss who each figure represents, but it is a story of different perspectives.
Lost being found. (For in Luke 15, we have lost sheep and lost coins as well as lost children.) Maybe, we ought to consider who, in this story, needs to be found?
I would argue there is a fourth person involved here too. You will see that person is not in the story as much as they observe the story.
One child asks for their share of inheritance today. This can be an insult to ask for post-death inheritance today. We do know that this takes away from the potential of the family and community to do something with that money too.
What would you do?
We as the reader can be Monday quarterbacks, the 20-20 hindsight, or the “I would have done this differently…” We have the perspective of observing, but remember, there are many times when we are in moments and need to make decisions.
We don’t have the luxury of time and consideration. Even if we play the moment in our minds over and over, we may still question.
Some of those decisions are the necessary, regardless if we like to admit it.
Some don’t have everyone winning (may upset those closest to us.)
Nevertheless, this parent divides his assets between them. We don’t know if this was exactly half to each child or if this division included some living expenses for the parent.
Nevertheless, we have stories of different paths taken.
One leaves home with money, and blows it. He squanders wealth so that he is forced to live a life of poverty and hunger. He returns home expecting to not be treated as a son but something less - perhaps “not worthy to tie sandals.”
The parent sees the child coming back. What would you do at this point?
Here, the parent celebrates the return with robes, feast and dancing.
There is the one who has been working in the fields, storing up all this wealth of good work, who apparently didn’t get an invite, didn’t get a goat for himself, but has been obedient: the dutiful one.
This could be the person who goes to church in a suit-and-tie watching people with shorts and sandals walking in the door.
All of that work and time feels worthless.
In many rights, the son is angry over this display and celebration.
The father tries to calm saying, “you are always with me and all that is mine is yours.”
Probably more true than not. If we take that literally, that means this dutiful one just paid for the celebration of the squanderer’s return.
There might be reason to be a bit disgruntled - or really angry.
However, any parent can tell you that finding a lost child means the world in that moment.
Think, Iowa State Fair, large crowds and trying to stay in arms reach of my child. Children have a incredible way of finding shiny things hanging or what looks like some fun. Similarly, parents get focused on something, and boom, I lost him. I was surprised, then scared, then bit of anger, then worry and then mix of all of that.
For parents whose child is gone (for longer than it takes a department store announcement or our shouts to find them), things go through the mind. When you are scared and wondering what has happened or could happen, rarely, the good things bubble to the top, but instead, we think the worst.
Thus, this child returns home in tatters, hungry, and pitiful. We can imagine being overwhelmed with seeing them alive. Just that is a relief of the emotional coaster-ride, and that converts negative energy into positive.
Not just relief but overwhelmed with joy that one is found!
Pivot.
This cant be much consolation to the angry, dutiful child and neither the words “you are always with me…”
The parable ends there, and we can imagine sequels to this story. Many could even rewrite this parable with how we would have acted as the one who squandered looking for forgiveness; we could be the parent deciding how to welcome (if at all); and we could be the dutiful child holding grudges.
Good story writers, even comics, lead us through stories to reveal the point in the last line (aka punchline.)
This is however no joke. The parable ends here instead of pondering various negative ways this could end.
Perhaps, Jesus wants us (and religious elites) to understand the value of finding those who are lost.
Jesus wants us to realize God is the welcoming parent, who is willing to celebrate with forgiveness - while acknowledging those who have been dutiful. Further, God wants the dutiful to also take time to find and celebrate those who are found - because the father says, “we had to celebrate.”
For us who are dutiful, question what value are we holding in our grudges. To have stacked up all this good work and effort (wealth) is meaningless if we aren’t willing to give out forgiveness, like our God.
Go ahead wear the suits and do duties. Look up from your work and see people come to God from their own journeys. That is part of your duties being realized and that should be celebrated.
Psalmist tells us, “do not be …without understanding, whose temper must be curbed…"
Good thing this isn’t about what you or I would do but what God does.
Instead celebrate God's forgiveness.
That Beloved is for all of us,
Thanks be to God.