07 December 2017

Hope in a world of Anxiety - Mark 13

Hope Vs Anxiety
Tony E. Dillon-Hansen
6 Dec 2017

A Sermon based upon Isaiah 9:2; Psalm 80; Mark 13: 24-27

Will you pray with me?  Let God guide our senses, our hearts and our ears to receive the lessons given to us.  May the words of my mouth and the meditations of our hearts be acceptable in your sight O Lord, our Rock, Our Redeemer.

And All God’s Children Say:
Amen!

First, I would be remiss if I did not acknowledge today’s feast celebrated in many parts of the world.  Today marks the feast of St. Nicholas [of Myra] of whom we get many of the legendary characteristics of “Santa Claus.” There are several stories that surround St. Nicholas, aka Sinterklaas or St. Nick.

Despite immense odds and a civilization so focused upon military and social status,
the story says that St. Nicholas was willing
to help people in need and to provide comfort to those going to sea.
St. Nicholas followed heart and faith to love God and to love neighbor.
St. Nicholas provided hope.

In contrast, our Scripture in Psalm 80 is a grim painting of the history of one nation (Israel).  There are many parallels from that image to our own nation here today.

In our world today, our society is full of anxiety, depression and fear, and it is practically dripping from peoples’ lips (when not trying to sell some product.)

Anxiety is the opposite of hope.
It is the Negative opposite of positive.
It Consumes instead of inspires.
Causes Worrying instead of uplifting.

A wise one (Pastor Dave) recently talked about letting go of anxiety.
Alternatively, one could ask to let hope be your guiding light.

I could describe more about anxiety itself.
We know what anxiety feels like and looks like.
We see it everyday in the news with taunts, teasing, fears, angers, and hate spewing from people (some in prominent positions of influence both religious and political.
We can easily relate to the feelings expressed in Psalm 80.

Of that why would we want to restore a state of injustice?
Instead, We want to move forward in the light of God.

Thus, we have “walked in darkness [and] we have seen a great light.”

This bit from Isaiah evokes a sense of Hope despite the darkness with the light that shines.

What is beyond the light?
What does your hope look like, feel like?

Our Gospel from Mark posits, be careful of what you are looking to find.

If we focus upon devastation, war, injustice, and bitterness
without understanding our goal -- or our hope,
we are stuck looking into darkness at fear, injustice and hate.

A lesson from martial arts applies here.
When we hold on to a struggle, we cannot be free of that struggle.
When let go of the struggle, the grip of violence and anxiety, we can be free.

If we stop for just a moment,
instead of focusing upon negative,
center ourselves and
look toward the future with open eyes and wandering,
what do you see?

Can you see the green pastures of your hopes?
The clear still waters where God leads us?
Can you see the face shining upon you, O Child of God?

If you cannot, you are still focused upon the anxiety,
You are still holding onto the anxiety.

If nothing else, Let the hope of St. Nicholas alleviate your anxiety
for just a moment
and let hope be.
Fill yourself with calm and faith,
the gifts of Christ are right here.

Let go!
Witness hope in your breath.
Witness hope in your being.
Witness hope in your family.
Witness hope in your heart.

We can witness hope.
So Witness hope in the warmth of Church.
Witness hope in the community.
Because through these, we can witness God.

Then you can rest with great anticipation.
Then you may witness the light of Isaiah, of God.

For those of us living in darkness, let the light shine
And reveal the Hope and promise of Christ.
In this season of Advent, a season of promises,
Come home to hope, peace, love and joy.
Let’s build on the hope.

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Thanks Be to God.

02 November 2017

Letting Go of Being Right - Matthew 5: 1-12 All Saints

Letting Go of Being Right
Tony E Dillon-Hansen
1 November 2017
Last updated: Nov 1, 2017 12:32

A reflection based upon Revelation 7:9-17 • Psalm 34:1-10,22 • 1 John 3:1-3 • Matthew 5: 1-12

If you were looking for a grand oration
or drama filled fireworks today,
let me lower your expectations.
Vespers is meant to be light “evensong”,
so that kind of fanfare was not really in the cards.
Still, I was trying to figure how to tie our sermon theme
“Letting Go of Being Right”
with this solemn service of saints.

Will you pray with me?  Let God guide our senses, our hearts and our ears to receive the lesson given to us.  May the words of my mouth and the meditations of our hearts be acceptable in your sight O Lord, our Rock, Our Redeemer.  Amen.

Let us begin today,
we solemnly remember and celebrate those
who were Saints and those who have died this past year.
We honor these people ...

Let us pause.

From Matthew 5, “Blessed are those who morn, for they will be comforted.”
Let us be comforted.

For me, this is a day of personal remembrance as well,
since my dad lost a battle with cancer one year ago this month.

Let me tell you a little bit of his story
because I believe he has another lesson to teach.

My dad grew up MO Synod Lutheran,
served in the Air Force during Vietnam,
he married my mother (43 years long),
became devout Catholic (Mass was not an option in our house),
and my dad served Kansas and Iowa as a corrections officer. 
His life was about service through his final weeks
-- eagerly volunteering for veteran honor guard
saluting fellow veterans at their funerals.
In turn, those comrades honored Dad at his funeral,
and those guns still echo --loud and clear.

During that last year,
my dad and I had some deep conversations
and we prayed a lot together.

One thing that he kept questioning was
whether he had lived a good life. 

Growing up,
my dad and I had many disagreements and strong opinions
that at times strained our relations.
When the prognosis turned years into weeks,
Dad was less concerned about being right
but more about being with his family and friends and sharing the stories. 
I was less concerned about being right too
and more about listening to his stories.

You wonder, what does this have to do with “All Saints Day”
and I am glad you asked.

For “All Saints”, the Church historically celebrates this day to honor canonized saints
and those that have fallen in the past year.

A point to consider is that if we would rather be “right”
(as in holding onto judgements, preconceptions, or supposed privilege even)
than hold onto love, to listen and to have faith (in either each other or in God),
we may miss opportunities to share a story and to see the saints
that are next to us and within each of us. 

When my dad and I learned to forgive and to listen to each other,
our relationship grew abundantly
and thankfully before it was too late.
We still had disagreements.
Yet, we were willing to listen to each other
and realize the real potential inside each of us.

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The thing is that even saints were not perfect -- stumbled a little here and there,
but they got up, listened and opened their hearts.
Sometimes,
being a saint requires an act of sincere contrition/apology on our part.
Sometimes,
being a saint is saying I have had enough injustice.
These can be hard.
With God’s help,
we can do this because from Matthew
“blessed are the [humble] & blessed are the merciful.”

A judgmental attitude can happen
in our many relationships like with
a spouse,
a sibling,
a co-worker
or even, dare I say, some politicians.

The “I told you so” response does little to help us learn from each other.
Simply, if being right is our focus instead of love,
our scripture (1 John) suggests that we may not be pure in heart
and may not recognize that YOU are one of God’s children
and so is the one on your left and on your right.
All are God’s children.
(Your neighbor deserves a hug as there is a child of God.)

The scripture might suggest the question is:
“What can you do to open the door to better conversation and learning?”

When we cloud our eyes and attitudes with judgement and self-righteousness,
we can lose the ability to connect,
to have compassion,
or to do God’s work even though we are all God’s children.
When we remove those clouds of judgment,
suddenly there is a whole world of saints
from which we can learn and grow.

Then, we can see and be the authentically “pure in heart.”
That is a gift to each of us.

My father wondered if he lived a good life,
and because we listened and prayed -- together,
I could witness a pure heart.
His life was faith, love and forgiveness.

You and I don’t have to wait for a cancer diagnosis (or honor salute) to realize
there are saints in your lives and doing miracles.
God is calling us, nudging us.

Lean in,
We can hear God speaking in different ways through the people around us.
Open your hearts.

Just like our friends remembered here today,
many people live lives of great faith and service to their community
without so much as a Twitter hashtag.

Saints may not have lived perfect lives,
but then again, who here is perfect? 
They were all children of God.
They lead lives with some faith, hope and service.
Maybe, they just listened,
served their community,
or shared a meal or home.

They may have lived lives of their own quiet desperations,
and yet, in doing so,
they gave others around them purpose
-- just by being.
That is a miracle
and that is cause for remembrance and celebration.

For us that mourn, Revelations says that
“God will wipe away every tear from their eyes.”
We are reminded that we can be pure of heart too.

Again, Scripture tells us we are all children of God. 
When we welcome and truly listen,
we can witness the saint within us,
because ultimately,
we just want to be remembered well.

Time is fleeting.
Be a saint and enjoy the saints around you today
before you cannot.

With God’s grace,
you know there is a purpose provided for you.
Jesus tells us that we are blessed,
not by being right or self-righteous,
but by being merciful,
a peacemaker,
and pure of heart.

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Thanks Be to God.
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